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How to import a wedding guest list without losing the details

Prepare guest names, contacts and households, map spreadsheet columns, review possible duplicates and verify the saved list before inviting anyone.

Aisle · 4 min readPublished

At a glance

Prepare one person per guest row, with clear name and contact columns, then review the import before saving. Aisle accepts pasted lists and supported CSV, TSV, text and XLSX files, with a review step for the people and households it recognizes.

Useful columns
Name, email, phone and household
File types
CSV, TSV, TXT and XLSX
Before saving
Map columns and review every exception
After saving
Check people, contacts and household grouping

Prepare a list that represents people clearly

Keep a backup of the original file before editing it. Use one row per person where possible; a household is a relationship between people, not a replacement for their individual names. A row that says “The Smith family, four people” cannot tell you which child has an allergy or who is coming to brunch.

ColumnFictional exampleWhy it matters
First nameAlexIdentifies the person
Last nameRiveraHelps distinguish people with the same first name
Emailalex@example.comUse the address that person checks
PhoneInclude the country codeAvoid guessing where a local number belongs
HouseholdRivera householdReview the shared invitation grouping
AddressKeep postal parts in clear columnsDo not combine a postal code with a phone number

Keep an unknown contact blank rather than inserting a fake address or repeating another guest’s phone. Preserve diacritics in names and check that your spreadsheet has not dropped leading zeros or changed phone numbers into numeric notation.

Import and review on Aisle

  • Open Add guests, paste the list or choose a supported file.
  • Inspect the detected header row and map the columns to their intended fields. Skip columns you do not intend to import.
  • Review names, contacts and the household grouping. Correct ambiguous or invalid entries before saving.
  • Read the import result for what was added and what still needs attention. Resolve skipped or conflicting rows instead of uploading the same file repeatedly.
  • Open the saved list and spot-check names, email, phone, address and household membership against your source.

Aisle’s file review supports CSV, TSV, TXT and XLSX. An old .xls file is not the same as .xlsx; export a supported format first. A reviewed import is still not evidence that every original spreadsheet field has a corresponding destination field.

Handle duplicates and shared contacts carefully

Two guests can have the same name. Two members of a household may share an email address. Review the people involved before merging or removing anything. If the import reports a possible existing person or contact conflict, check the current guest record rather than treating a matching name as proof.

A contact import is not a full migration from another wedding platform. Existing event invitations, replies, meal choices, payments and message history need separate consideration. Keep the original records until you have verified what moved, and never infer an RSVP from a person’s presence on the imported list.

What to do after the import

Organize guest groups, set event invitations and define permitted companions. The invitation determines what a guest may attend; an imported household label should not be treated as automatic access to every event. Confirm contact information with the guest if there is any doubt before relying on it for sign-in or updates.

Importing contacts does not send an invitation, establish messaging permission or prove that a guest can open their private schedule. Use the guest access checks, then configure RSVPs and review message recipients before sending.

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Who wrote this

About this article

Written by Aisle. Sources and revision details are listed here. If you spot an error, email us.

First published
9 October 2026
Last revised
9 October 2026
Author
Aisle

Common questions

Can I import an Excel guest list?+

Aisle accepts supported .xlsx files as well as CSV, TSV and text files. Review the detected columns and guests before saving. Export older .xls files to a supported format first.

Should a couple be one row or two?+

Prefer one person per row, then use household grouping for the relationship. Separate people need their own attendance and meal details.

Does importing a list send invitations?+

No. Treat importing people, setting invitations and sending messages as separate steps. Review the saved list before contacting anyone.

Will old RSVPs and payments come with the spreadsheet?+

Do not assume so. A guest-contact import does not promise a complete migration of replies, event invitations, payments or message history.

Can I leave contact details blank?+

Yes. Add correct details when you have them rather than inventing placeholders. Missing contacts may prevent guest identification or delivery.

Sources

Sources and editorial notes

  1. 2026AisleAisle guest list featuresOpen →
  2. 2026AisleGuest access checksOpen →
  3. 2026AisleWebsite and guest toolsOpen →

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