Bernardus Lodge & Spa — destination wedding venue in CA 93924, USA
Hotel

Bernardus Lodge & Spa

CA 93924, USA, United States20150 guests$$$
Type:Hotel
Capacity:20150 guests
Budget:$$$
Airport:Monterey Regional Airport (MRY) and San Francisco International Airport (SFO) (MRY / SFO), MRY: 45 minutes | SFO: 2.5 hours

Bernardus Lodge & Spa sits on 22 acres in the Santa Lucia foothills of Carmel Valley, offering sweeping vineyard views and oak-studded terrain at 2,000 feet elevation. The resort combines Mediterranean-inspired architecture with California wine country landscape, featuring guest rooms overlooking rolling hills and a full spa facility on-site. Ceremonies and receptions unfold against views of the valley floor and distant coastal ridges.

Highlights

  • 22-acre property with vineyard vistas and natural oak woodland terrain
  • On-site spa and wellness facilities available for wedding guest relaxation
  • Elevation of 2,000 feet provides cooler temperatures and dramatic sunset backdrops
  • Four on-property dining venues including Marinus restaurant for rehearsal dinners
  • Accommodations for 55 guest rooms allow multi-day family stays

Quick facts

Capacity20150 guests
Venue typeHotel
Price range$$$
LocationUnited States
Nearest airportMRY / SFO

Plan your wedding at Bernardus Lodge & Spa

Getting there

Monterey Regional Airport (MRY) and San Francisco International Airport (SFO) (MRY / SFO)

MRY: 45 minutes | SFO: 2.5 hours to venue

Private car service

$120–180 one-way estimate

45 min from MRY · Hotel can arrange through concierge

Rental car

Daily rental $50–100+

45 min from MRY · Drive Carmel Valley Road inland from coastal towns

Helicopter transfer

$3,000–5,000+ per flight

20 min from SFO · Direct arrival available through specialty operators

Cost estimate

Ceremony / venue fee

$2,500–5,000

Reception (per guest)

$150–250 (food & beverage)

Accommodation (per night)

$350–650 per room

Estimated total

$35,000–60,000+ (100 guests, 2-night stay, ceremony & reception)

Pricing varies by season (peak June–October). Spa packages, wine tastings, and rehearsal dinners add separately. Peak season rates higher. Request formal proposal for exact quote.

Sample wedding weekend

Friday

4:00 PMGuest arrival, check-in, welcome reception on terrace
7:00 PMRehearsal dinner at Marinus restaurant

Saturday

9:00 AMBridal party preparation, spa services available
3:30 PMCeremony on hillside lawn or indoor venue
5:00 PMCocktail hour with vineyard views
6:30 PMReception dinner and dancing

Sunday

10:00 AMBrunch farewell, guest checkout

This is a sample itinerary. Your wedding weekend can be fully customized.

Frequently asked questions

What is the terrain like for outdoor ceremonies?
The property features rolling hillside grounds with oak trees and manicured lawn areas. Elevation changes offer dramatic backdrops but require consideration for guest mobility and ceremony setup logistics.
Are there indoor and outdoor reception options?
Yes. Multiple indoor event spaces accommodate various party sizes, and outdoor terrace areas provide vineyard views. Coverage options exist for weather contingencies.
Can wedding guests stay on-site?
The lodge has 55 guest rooms on property, allowing multi-day wedding experiences. Room rates and wedding group packages vary seasonally.
What is the distance to major cities?
Carmel Valley is approximately 20 miles inland from Carmel-by-the-Sea and 100 miles south of San Francisco Bay Area.

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