Whitby Castle is a restaurant destination wedding venue in NY, United States, hosting 250 at dinner, where a wedding for 80 guests costs about US$32,000 (our estimate), reached from LaGuardia Airport (LGA) and Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR) (LGA / EWR), 45-60 minutes from LaGuardia, 60-75 minutes from Newark.
Whitby Castle
Whitby Castle operates as a restaurant venue in Rye, NY, which means you get a professional kitchen and experienced service staff handling logistics so your team can focus on the celebration.
About Whitby Castle
Whitby Castle operates as a restaurant venue in Rye, NY, which means you get a professional kitchen and experienced service staff handling logistics so your team can focus on the celebration.
The Hudson Valley location sits roughly 30 miles north of New York City, making it accessible for guests traveling from the metro area.
With a 4.7/5 Google rating, the venue has demonstrated consistent execution across multiple events.
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May be THE BEST even venue I've ever attended! Flawless! The outdoor ceremony set up was stunning! The hors d'oeuvres on the deck were phenomenal! The servers were professional and friendly. The reception room and servers were excellent!
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Capacity
- Seated dinner
- 250 guests
- Standing reception
- 250 guests
The ceremony
- Outdoor ceremony
- Yes
- Indoor option if it rains
- Yes
Money
- A wedding for 80 guests
- About US$32,000, rooms extraAisle estimate
- Price
- US$175 to US$275 per headAisle estimate
House rules
- Exclusive use required
- Yes
Getting there
- Nearest airport
- HPN, 60 min by carAisle estimate
- Parking
- Yes
The spaces
- Event spaces
- Ballroom
- Reception indoors
- Yes
- Space for dancing
- Yes
- Setting
- Coastal, historic, elegantAisle estimate
The place
- Sea view
- Yes
- Gardens
- Yes
- Historic building
- Yes
Food and drink
- In-house catering
- Yes
Venue highlights
- Located at 330 Boston Post Rd in Rye, NY, approximately 30 miles from Manhattan
- Restaurant-grade kitchen and full-service dining capabilities included
- 4.7/5 Google rating based on customer reviews
- Hudson Valley proximity offers easy access from NYC while maintaining regional character
A sample wedding weekend
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- AfternoonGuest arrival and check-in at nearby hotels
- EveningWelcome dinner or rehearsal (optional)
- MorningFinal preparations and vendor arrival
- AfternoonCeremony and cocktail hour
- EveningReception dinner and dancing
- BrunchOptional post-wedding gathering or guest departure
Costs and booking details
- Getting there
- HPN · about 1 h by carAisle estimate
Guests fly into HPN.
- Direct line
- (914) 777-2053
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Questions about the venue
What are the venue's operating hours for events?+
Contact Whitby Castle directly at https://www.whitbycastleny.com/ or call to confirm event availability and their standard event scheduling.
Can we bring our own catering?+
Since Whitby Castle operates as a restaurant venue, inquire directly about their in-house catering requirements or external vendor policies.
Is there parking available for guests?+
Verify parking capacity and accessibility by contacting the venue directly, as this varies by location and event size.
What is the maximum guest count?+
Capacity depends on the specific event space setup. Contact the venue to discuss your expected headcount and available configurations.
Are there hotels nearby?+
Rye offers several lodging options within a short distance. The venue team can recommend accommodations convenient for your guests.
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Sources and booking notes
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Sources for individual venue facts
Seated dinner: 250 guests
“Accommodates up to 250 guests for a seated dinner or 250 guests for a cocktail-style reception.”
Read the source for seated dinnerStanding reception: 250 guests
“Accommodates up to 250 guests for a seated dinner or 250 guests for a cocktail-style reception.”
Read the source for standing receptionOutdoor ceremony: Yes
“Browse moments from outdoor lawn ceremonies and intimate indoor vows, followed by grand receptions in our stunning ballroom.”
Read the source for outdoor ceremonyIndoor option if it rains: Yes
“Browse moments from outdoor lawn ceremonies and intimate indoor vows, followed by grand receptions in our stunning ballroom.”
Read the source for indoor option if it rainsIn-house catering: Yes
“Perched on the shores of the Long Island Sound, the castle combines centuries of architectural character with a full-service culinary and hospitality program managed by Lessing’s Hospitality Group.”
Read the source for in-house cateringExclusive use required: Yes
“Whitby Castle hosts a maximum of one event at a time, so your celebration will always have the full attention of our team and the exclusive use of the venue.”
Read the source for exclusive use requiredParking: Yes
“On-site parking is available at Whitby Castle.”
Read the source for parkingEvent spaces: Ballroom
“Say “I do” beneath soaring stone towers and celebrate in a grand ballroom where every detail feels magical.”
Read the source for event spacesReception indoors: Yes
“Browse moments from outdoor lawn ceremonies and intimate indoor vows, followed by grand receptions in our stunning ballroom.”
Read the source for reception indoorsSpace for dancing: Yes
“There’s plenty of room for dinner and dancing, the food is solid, and the staff has always been kind, responsive, and on top of things.”
Read the source for space for dancingSea view: Yes
“Set across 126 acres of perfectly manicured grounds overlooking the Long Island Sound, Whitby Castle offers a breathtaking setting inspired by England’s historic Whitby Abbey—perfect for weddings and private events that feel worlds away.”
Read the source for sea viewGardens: Yes
“Set across 126 acres of perfectly manicured grounds overlooking the Long Island Sound, Whitby Castle offers a breathtaking setting inspired by England’s historic Whitby Abbey—perfect for weddings and private events that feel worlds away.”
Read the source for gardensHistoric building: Yes
“Whitby Castle is a historic waterfront estate in Rye, New York, set on the shores of the Long Island Sound.”
Read the source for historic building