The Ross
Guests arrive at this storied Victorian hotel on Killarney's main thoroughfare to discover soaring ceilings, period details, and staff who remember names.
The Ross is a hotel destination wedding venue in Co. Kerry, Ireland, hosting 20 to 350 guests in the $$$ price range, reached from Kerry Airport (KIR), 1 hour 15 minutes. Best months: May, June, August, September.
About The Ross
Guests arrive at this storied Victorian hotel on Killarney's main thoroughfare to discover soaring ceilings, period details, and staff who remember names.
From the moment you step into the grand lobby, the pace of your wedding slows to match the rhythm of the surrounding mountains and lakes.
The Ross offers 200+ years of Irish hospitality across banquet suites, gardens, and accommodation under one historic roof.
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Nothing is reserved until the venue confirms. A first note comes back within two business days.
The staff really make this hotel special. From reception to housekeeping and the bar team, everyone was friendly, professional, and extremely accommodating. My room was spacious, comfortable, and had everything I needed.
Ian Bell · read the whole review on Google →Capacity, rooms and facilities
Getting there
- Nearest airport
- KIR, 75 min by carAisle estimate
Venue highlights
- Located on East Avenue in central Killarney, directly adjacent to St. Mary's Cathedral and Muckross Abbey
- Victorian-era hotel established in the 1800s with restored period architecture and modern event facilities
- Accommodates up to 350 guests with multiple function rooms, including a dedicated wedding suite with natural light
- On-site accommodation with 65 bedrooms, allowing wedding parties and guests to stay within the venue
The wedding season
A sample wedding weekend
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Use this as a starting point and adapt it to your bookings and guests.
- 16:00Guests arrive and check into The Ross; welcome tea/coffee in lobby lounge
- 19:00Rehearsal dinner in private dining room or hotel restaurant
- 10:00Wedding ceremony in hotel chapel or garden space
- 11:30Reception drinks and canapés in foyer or garden
- 13:00Seated reception and formal dinner in main banquet hall
- 22:00Evening entertainment and dancing; guests retire to rooms
- 09:00Farewell breakfast; checkout
Costs and booking details
- Getting there
- KIR · about 1 h 15 by carAisle estimate
Guests fly into Kerry Airport.
- Typical total
- €8,000–20,000+Aisle estimate
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€8,000–20,000+ for 50–100 guests including accommodation, food, and beverages
- Ceremony fee
- IncludedAisle estimate
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Included in package or €200–400 (dependent on room and time slot)
- Reception
- €85–150 a headAisle estimate
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€85–150 (menu dependent; peak season premium applies)
- Room rate
- €120–200 a nightAisle estimate
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€120–200 per room (standard to suite; group rates 15+ rooms)
- Weather window
- May – June
The months the weather is kindest, with August and September mild too. Weather does not indicate whether a date is available.
- Direct line
- (064) 663 1855
Answered by the venue in local hours.
Prices vary significantly by season and day of week. Deposit typically required to secure dates. Contact the venue at http://www.theross.ie/ for detailed quotes.
Questions about the venue
What's included in a wedding package at The Ross?+
Packages typically include use of ceremony and reception rooms, tables, chairs, linens, bar setup, and a dedicated wedding coordinator. Menu planning with the in-house kitchen and accommodation discounts for guests are standard. Contact the venue directly for package details and seasonal pricing.
Can we accommodate dietary requirements?+
Yes. The Ross kitchen team manages vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, and allergy-specific menus. Discuss all dietary needs during initial consultation to ensure execution.
Is there parking available?+
The hotel has dedicated parking available on-site and nearby. With guests staying in the building, most attendees can walk between rooms and event spaces.
What's the weather like in Killarney during wedding season?+
Many couples choose late spring or early autumn for outdoor photo opportunities in the surrounding landscapes.
Are there outside ceremony options?+
The Ross has manicured gardens suitable for intimate ceremonies. Large ceremonies typically take place in the hotel's chapel-like spaces. Weather contingencies and indoor backup spaces are always confirmed in advance.
Could this be your venue?
Ask about your plans, pricing and availability. You do not need a fixed date yet.
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Sources and booking notes
Confirm your dates, guest numbers, room arrangements and inclusions with the venue before booking. An enquiry does not reserve a date. Figures labelled Aisle estimate are modelled from regional rates and public sources; they are not venue quotes.