Shangri-La Resort is a hotel destination wedding venue in Afton, United States, hosting 225 at dinner and 500 standing, where a wedding for 80 guests costs about US$16,000 (our estimate).
Shangri-La Resort
Shangri-La Resort sits on the lakeside in Afton, Oklahoma, with an outdoor ceremony option overlooking the water and indoor meeting and banquet space for the reception.
About Shangri-La Resort
Shangri-La Resort sits on the lakeside in Afton, Oklahoma, with an outdoor ceremony option overlooking the water and indoor meeting and banquet space for the reception.
The resort seats 90 guests for a plated dinner and holds up to 150 for standing receptions, so it suits mid-sized celebrations rather than large-scale ones.
Accommodation runs across 18 room types, from King Rooms and King Studios for two to accessible Queen Rooms sleeping up to five, including options with balconies, patios and golf views.
The resort publishes a wedding packages document and a dedicated weddings page, and the events team can be reached directly by phone or email.
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Absolutely amazing place, all the staff are super friendly and helpful. Rooms are clean and the place is beautiful. My husband and I stayed here days leading up to our wedding and we absolutely loved it.
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Capacity
- Seated dinner
- 225 guests
- Standing reception
- 500 guests
- Ceremony, seated
- 100 guests
Staying over
- Rooms
- 119 rooms
- Room types
- 18 listed
The ceremony
- Outdoor ceremony
- Yes
Money
- A wedding for 80 guests
- About US$16,000, rooms extraAisle estimate
- Price
- US$65 to US$130 per headAisle estimate
House rules
- Weddings held
- All year
- Pets
- Yes
- Children
- Yes
Getting there
- Nearest airport
- TUL, 100 min by carAisle estimate
- Parking
- Yes
- Guest transport
- Yes
The spaces
- Event spaces
- Ballroom
- Reception indoors
- Yes
- Reception outdoors
- Yes
- Space for dancing
- Yes
- Setting
- Lakeside, modern, elegant
The place
- Swimming pool
- Yes
- On a lake
- Yes
Services
- Coordinator on the day
- Yes
Food and drink
- In-house catering
- Yes
- Bring your own wine
- No
- Bar on site
- Yes
Venue highlights
- Lakeside setting with an outdoor ceremony option
- Seats 90 for a seated dinner and holds up to 150 standing
- Meeting and banquet space available for receptions
- 18 room types, including accessible Queen Rooms for up to 5 guests and balcony, patio and golf-view rooms
Costs and booking details
- Getting there
- TUL · about 1 h 40 by carAisle estimate
Guests fly into TUL.
- Direct line
- (918) 257-4204
Answered by the venue in local hours.
Questions about the venue
How many guests can Shangri-La Resort accommodate for a wedding?+
The venue seats 90 guests for a seated dinner and accommodates up to 150 for a standing reception.
Can we hold the ceremony outdoors?+
Yes. Outdoor ceremonies are available at this lakeside resort.
What accommodation is available for our guests?+
There are 18 room types listed, including King Rooms, King Studios, Queen Studios, rooms with balconies or a patio and courtyard view, and accessible rooms sleeping up to five.
How do we get pricing and package details?+
Shangri-La Resort publishes a wedding packages PDF and a weddings page on its website. You can also contact the team at +1 918-257-4204 or marketing@shangrilaok.com. We estimate catering costs in the region of 85 to 175 USD per head.
Which airport should guests fly into?+
We estimate Tulsa International Airport (TUL) is the nearest option, at around 100 minutes by road.
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Sources and booking notes
Confirm your dates, guest numbers, room arrangements and inclusions with the venue before booking. An enquiry does not reserve a date. Figures labelled Aisle estimate are modelled from regional rates and public sources; they are not venue quotes.
Sources for individual venue facts
Seated dinner: 225 guests
“CAPACITY: 225 with stage and dance floor”
Read the source for seated dinnerStanding reception: 500 guests
“The Roosevelt Ballroom can accommodate approximately 500 individuals in a theatre or reception setting.”
Read the source for standing receptionCeremony, seated: 100 guests
“CEREMONY LAWN CAPACITY: 100 / DOC’S PATIO CAPACITY: 125”
Read the source for ceremony, seatedRooms: 119 rooms
“With 119 beautifully appointed guest rooms and suites, your loved ones can gather in comfort, joy, and convenience.”
Read the source for roomsRoom types: 18 listed
“King Room”
Read the source for room typesOutdoor ceremony: Yes
“Golden hour over Grand Lake, a gentle breeze through the trees, vows exchanged at the water’s edge.”
Read the source for outdoor ceremonyIn-house catering: Yes
“Our award-winning culinary team delivers creative, custom menus inspired by regional flavors and seasonal ingredients.”
Read the source for in-house cateringBring your own wine: No
“No outside alcoholic beverages are to be brought onto the property.”
Read the source for bring your own wineBar on site: Yes
“Multiple dining options, under the direction of Executive Chef and Director of Food and Beverages Michael Bujold, exist including the new Eddy’s Lakeside Bar, the Doc’s Bar and Grill, the Summit Restaurant and Buffalo Bar, the News-Record reported.”
Read the source for bar on siteWeddings held: All year
“Shangri-La Resort and Marina remain open throughout the year, offering seasonal experiences from summer lake life to cozy winter getaways.”
Read the source for weddings heldPets: Yes
“Up to two dogs allowed per room.”
Read the source for petsChildren: Yes
“Children 17 years old and younger stay free with an accompanied adult.”
Read the source for childrenParking: Yes
“Additionally, the paved Monkey Island Trail, which connects with the Hotel parking lot and extends five-and-a-half miles, is a great way to explore the island by foot, golf cart or power-assisted bicycle.”
Read the source for parkingGuest transport: Yes
“Shuttle service is available to local airports.”
Read the source for guest transportEvent spaces: Ballroom
“Meeting/banquet facilities”
Read the source for event spacesReception indoors: Yes
“Shangri-La offers beautiful indoor and outdoor venues overlooking Grand Lake—ideal for weddings, corporate meetings, and executive retreats.”
Read the source for reception indoorsReception outdoors: Yes
“Shangri-La offers beautiful indoor and outdoor venues overlooking Grand Lake—ideal for weddings, corporate meetings, and executive retreats.”
Read the source for reception outdoorsSpace for dancing: Yes
“CAPACITY: 225 with stage and dance floor”
Read the source for space for dancingSetting: Lakeside, modern, elegant
“Tucked away at the tip of Monkey Island, Shangri-La Resort is Oklahoma’s premier lakefront destination.”
Read the source for settingSwimming pool: Yes
“Experience luxury in this stylish guestroom featuring a king-sized bed, a soft seating area, and a courtyard patio just steps from the outdoor pool area.”
Read the source for swimming poolOn a lake: Yes
“Shangri-La Resort is located on Monkey Island, a scenic peninsula extending into Grand Lake O’ the Cherokees in northeast Oklahoma.”
Read the source for on a lakeCoordinator on the day: Yes
“Shangri-La’s in-house planning team offers full-service event coordination, including timeline management, vendor coordination, AV setup, décor, and day-of support.”
Read the source for coordinator on the day