Cowdray House
Cowdray is 16,000 acres of the South Downs National Park, an hour from Gatwick, with the Tudor ruins of the old Tudor mansion standing in the park as a reminder of the fire that took it in 1793.
Cowdray House is an estate destination wedding venue in Midhurst, United Kingdom, hosting up to 300 guests (Aisle estimate), where a wedding for 80 guests costs about £34,000 (our estimate), reached from London Gatwick (LGW), About 1 hour by car.
About Cowdray House
Cowdray is 16,000 acres of the South Downs National Park, an hour from Gatwick, with the Tudor ruins of the old Tudor mansion standing in the park as a reminder of the fire that took it in 1793.
The Pearson family built the present Cowdray House and lived in it until recently; it now goes out for exclusive use, one party at a time, with 22 double en-suite bedrooms sleeping 44.
Buck Hall, under its vaulted ceiling, seats 150 for dinner and takes 300 for a standing reception, and a marquee on the lawns handles up to 600.
The estate is the reason to come rather than the building alone: 110 acres of Capability Brown gardens, a lake, indoor and outdoor pools, a bowling alley, a billiards room, tennis, and the polo grounds at Cowdray Park, which is where the sport has been played in England since 1910.
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Capacity, rooms and facilities
Staying over
- Rooms
- 22 rooms
- Whole property to yourselves
- Yes
Money
- A wedding for 80 guests
- About £34,000, rooms extraAisle estimate
- Price
- £25,000 to £45,000 for the whole property, per nightAisle estimate
House rules
- Exclusive use required
- Yes
Getting there
- Nearest airport
- LGW, 60 min by carAisle estimate
The spaces
- Setting
- Countryside, historic, elegant
Food and drink
- In-house catering
- Yes
Venue highlights
- Exclusive use of a country house on a 16,000-acre South Downs estate
- Buck Hall seats 150 under a vaulted ceiling, 300 standing
- Marquee on the lawns takes up to 600 guests
- 22 double en-suite bedrooms sleeping 44 guests
A sample wedding weekend
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- 17:00Guests arrive, drinks by the lake and supper in the dining room
- 11:00Polo lesson or clay shooting on the estate
- 14:30Ceremony in the gardens or Buck Hall
- 16:00Reception on the terrace above the parkland
- 19:30Dinner in Buck Hall, dancing in the marquee
- 11:00Brunch, a swim, and the South Downs Way for anyone walking
Costs and booking details
- Getting there
- LGW · about 1 h by carAisle estimate
Guests fly into London Gatwick.
Questions about the venue
How many guests can Cowdray House hold?+
Buck Hall seats up to 150 for dinner and holds 300 for a standing reception. A marquee on the lawns takes as many as 600, which is the route larger weddings use while keeping the main rooms for the ceremony and drinks.
What does exclusive use include?+
The main house and gardens, the indoor and outdoor swimming pools, the bowling alley, tennis courts, croquet lawn and 22 double en-suite bedrooms sleeping 44, with only your party on the property.
Is this the Tudor ruin?+
No. The Grade I listed Cowdray ruins stand separately in the park, destroyed by fire in 1793 and now a visitor attraction. The wedding venue is the later Cowdray House across the park, which is the family home the estate lets.
What does a wedding at Cowdray cost?+
Cowdray designs each wedding rather than selling packages, so pricing is quoted after a conversation about dates, guest numbers and how many nights you take. Our cost panel is an estimate for the tier, not a quote.
What can guests do on the estate?+
Polo at Cowdray Park, which has hosted the sport since 1910, plus golf, clay pigeon shooting, fly fishing and walking straight onto the South Downs Way. Midhurst, with its pubs and the Spread Eagle, is a mile away.
How do guests get there?+
Gatwick is about an hour by car and Heathrow an hour and a quarter. Haslemere station is twenty minutes away with direct trains from London Waterloo in under an hour, which makes this an easy weekend for London guests.
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Sources and booking notes
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Sources for individual venue facts
Rooms: 22 rooms
“With 22 beautiful bedrooms to choose from, you and your team are guaranteed to wake up refreshed and ready to take on the day.”
Read the source for roomsWhole property to yourselves: Yes
“Available for exclusive use, and offering complete privacy, Cowdray House is a stunning location for a range of events including weddings, celebrations and corporates.”
Read the source for whole property to yourselvesIn-house catering: Yes
“The Yellow Kitchen is Cowdray’s first and only in-house catering team, available for Estate-based weddings and events.”
Read the source for in-house cateringExclusive use required: Yes
“Escape the office and reimagine what’s possible at Cowdray House - a spectacular Grade II listed country home available only on an exclusive-use basis.”
Read the source for exclusive use requiredSetting: Countryside, historic, elegant
“Located in the rolling hills of the Sussex countryside, with easy access to central London and its major airports, the 110 acres of Cowdray House are exclusively yours for the duration of your stay.”
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