Wedding dress code wording generator.
Choose a wedding dress code to see outfit guidance and wording for your invitation and website. Add details about the setting, weather and anything guests need to bring.
Revised 30 June 2026
Polished but not formal, a suit, or a cocktail or midi dress.
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Cocktail attire
We’re going cocktail attire. Think suits and cocktail dresses. The celebration runs into the evening indoors, so dress for a long, beautiful night.
A cocktail or midi dress, or a dressy jumpsuit.
A suit and tie, in any colour, a dark suit reads safest.
Tell guests about the setting as well as the dress code. Grass, cobbles, sand and an outdoor evening affect what people can comfortably wear.
A wedding website set like a card, dress code, schedule, travel and RSVP, in one place.
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Open the budget reckoner →Add your chosen dress code to an Aisle wedding website alongside the schedule, travel details and RSVPs.
Start planning →Every dress code,
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The wedding dress codes, most to least formal, with what each one asks of your guests. Choose one above and the tool writes the wording for your invitation and website; the table below is the quick reference to share when someone asks what cocktail attire actually means.
| Dress code | What it means | For her | For him |
|---|---|---|---|
| White tie | The most formal dress code there is, full evening dress. | A formal floor-length ball gown, with gloves and fine jewellery. | A black tailcoat, white waistcoat, and a white bow tie. |
| Black tie | Formal evening wear: tuxedos, and floor-length or elegant gowns. | A floor-length gown or a very formal midi. | A black tuxedo with a black bow tie. |
| Black-tie optional | A tuxedo is welcome but not required, a dark suit is just as right. | A floor-length gown or a dressy cocktail dress. | A tuxedo, or a dark suit and tie. |
| Formal | Polished evening wear, a step below black tie. | A long dress, a formal jumpsuit, or a dressy cocktail dress. | A dark suit and tie. |
| Cocktail attire | Polished but not formal, a suit, or a cocktail or midi dress. | A cocktail or midi dress, or a dressy jumpsuit. | A suit and tie, in any colour, a dark suit reads safest. |
| Semi-formal | A notch below cocktail: a suit, or a midi or smart dress. | A knee-length or midi dress, or smart separates. | A suit; a tie is optional. |
| Festive | Cocktail with personality, colour, sparkle, a little statement. | A fun cocktail dress, colour or sequins encouraged. | A suit with a bold tie, jacket, or pocket square. |
| Beach formal | Elevated but breathable, made for sand, sun, and a sea breeze. | A flowy midi or maxi dress, with wedges or smart flats. | A linen or light-coloured suit, no tie, with loafers. |
| Dressy casual | Put-together but relaxed, a step up from everyday, no jeans. | A sundress or nice separates. | Chinos and a collared shirt; a blazer is a nice touch. |
On a printed invitation, the dress code is just the term, set in the lower corner. Save the detail, the setting, the weather, the lawn that eats heels, for your wedding website, where there is room to be warm and specific.
Want photographs rather than a definition, or a named code like vineyard chic or tropical formal? The dress-code library gives each one a page, with what to wear, what to skip, and the wording, ready to drop onto your own wedding site.
Common questions
What are the wedding dress codes, from most to least formal?
White tie and black tie are the most formal options. Black-tie optional and formal follow, then cocktail, semi-formal and dressy casual. Labels such as festive or beach formal also describe the setting or style, so add outfit guidance rather than relying on a strict ranking.
What does cocktail attire mean for a wedding?
Cocktail attire usually means a suit, cocktail or midi dress, dressy jumpsuit or another polished outfit. A tuxedo is generally not required. Check the couple’s guidance for the venue, season and level of formality.
What is the difference between cocktail and semi-formal?
The terms overlap. Cocktail usually suggests a dressier outfit, while semi-formal allows more flexibility. If you are choosing the wording, give guests a few outfit examples so they understand what you mean.
How do I word the dress code on my invitation?
Add a short label, such as Black tie or Cocktail attire, to the invitation or details card. Put outfit examples, terrain and weather information on your wedding website. This tool gives you wording for both.
What should guests wear to a beach or destination wedding?
Follow the couple’s dress code and check the setting. Lightweight fabrics and shoes suitable for sand or grass may help, depending on the venue. Couples should explain any formal requirements and practical details on their website.
For agentsThe same numbers are callable as get_dress_code_guide over the Aisle MCP server, in ChatGPT, Claude, or Cursor.
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