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How do you get married in a castle in Ireland?

To get married in a castle in Ireland, you both give a registrar at least three months' notice, pay a €200 fee and are married there by a registered solemniser; no residency is required. A castle wedding for 40 to 80 guests is estimated at €30,000 to €70,000 before guest rooms, rising to €74,700 for 80 at the highest rates.

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At a glance

To get married in a castle in Ireland, both of you give a registrar at least three months' notice, pay the non-refundable €200 fee and collect a Marriage Registration Form for a registered solemniser to sign at the castle. Ireland has no residency requirement, though couples who give notice by post must meet the registrar at least five days before the ceremony. A castle wedding for 40 to 80 guests is estimated at €30,000 to €70,000 before guest rooms; itemised, it runs from €19,200 (40 guests, lowest rates) to €74,700 (80 guests, highest rates).

Notice to the registrar
At least 3 months, from both of you
Notification fee
€200, non-refundable
Residency requirement
None
Estimated cost
€30,000–€70,000, 40–80 guests, before rooms

What are the steps to getting married in an Irish castle?

Getting married in an Irish castle takes five steps: hold a date, choose a solemniser from the Register of Solemnisers, give a registrar at least three months' notice, collect your Marriage Registration Form, and marry at the castle before two witnesses. Ireland has no residency requirement, so foreign couples follow the same steps.

  1. Hold a date. Compare castle wedding venues in Ireland, and leave three clear months for the notice.
  2. Choose a solemniser. This decides which days and which parts of the castle you can use.
  3. Give notice. Both of you notify a registrar and pay the €200 fee.
  4. Collect the Marriage Registration Form. Without it, the ceremony is not legal.
  5. Marry and register. You, both witnesses and the solemniser sign the form after the ceremony. After a religious or secular ceremony, return it to a registrar within one month.

How do you get married in Ireland as an American?

Americans can legally get married in Ireland, and a US citizen does not have to live there first. A couple living in the United States can ask a registrar for permission to give the three months' notice by post, but both must then meet the registrar in person at least five days before the ceremony to sign the declaration.

Americans add four things to the standard list:

  • An interview. When one of you is a foreign national, you attend an interview with the registrar.
  • Immigration status. If either of you is not an EU citizen, bring up-to-date evidence of your immigration status.
  • Birth certificates. One issued outside the EU may need an apostille or legalisation, so ask the Civil Registration Service.
  • A previous divorce. The General Register Office examines every foreign divorce to decide whether Ireland can recognise it. Raise it at first contact.

To check that your state recognises a marriage made abroad, the US State Department says to contact the attorney general's office where you live. Dublin and Shannon airports both have US preclearance, so guests clear US customs before boarding the flight home.

Who can legally marry you at an Irish castle?

A wedding at an Irish castle is legal only when a solemniser on the Register of Solemnisers performs it: a civil registrar, a religious solemniser, or a secular solemniser such as a Humanist Association of Ireland celebrant. Civil registrars marry couples Monday to Friday only, so a legal Saturday ceremony needs a religious or secular solemniser.

SolemniserWhenWhere at the castle
Civil registrarMonday to Friday, not weekends or public holidaysA room or garden the registrar has approved, for an extra fee. Registrars generally work only in their own county.
Religious solemniserAgree with the religious bodyUsually a place of worship; ask whether they will come to the castle
Secular solemniser, such as a Humanist celebrantAgree with the celebrantMore flexibility on location; the venue must be open to the public

How much does an Ireland castle wedding cost?

An Ireland castle wedding for 40 to 80 guests is estimated at €30,000 to €70,000 before guest rooms: a planning figure, not a venue quote. Line by line, this guide's figures for a three-day weekend add up to €19,200 at their lowest for 40 guests and €74,700 at their highest for 80.

All figures are in euro, and none is confirmed as including VAT, so check every quote. Planning figures from each castle's published or documented 2026 pricing:

Castle2026 planning figures
Ashford Castle, MayoSmall wedding packages from around €25,000; full weddings pass €50,000
Ballyfin Demesne, LaoisQuoted per wedding; guest rooms from around €810 a night
Luttrellstown Castle, DublinMenus from around €115 per person; €50,000 to €60,000 for a weekend with roughly 100 guests, rooms and services
Markree Castle, SligoFour package tiers, from €115, €130, €150 and €205 per person
Cabra Castle, CavanVenue hire €8,500 to €12,000 for up to 50 guests; catering €95 to €165 per guest
Bellingham Castle, LouthFrom around €145 per person on Fridays and Saturdays, €125 Sunday to Thursday

The estimate over a three-day weekend, at the lowest and highest figure for each line:

LineLowest, 40 guestsHighest, 80 guests
Catering, €95 to €205 per guest€3,800€16,400
Venue hire fee (none at per-head castle hotels)€0€12,000
Photography€3,000€7,000
Flowers€3,000€8,000
Wedding band€2,000€4,000
Traditional Irish session€500€900
Planner or coordinator€2,500€10,000
Welcome dinner, €45 to €70 per head€1,800€5,600
Day-after activity, €50 to €120 per person€2,000€9,600
Return coach from Dublin€600€1,200
Estimated total€19,200€74,700

The total leaves out hair and makeup, stationery and guest rooms. If you pay for rooms, 20 to 30 bedrooms at an estimated €300 to €800 a night is €6,000 to €24,000 a night, and Ballyfin's rooms start above that band. A private-estate buyout also costs more than the hire fee shown. At the top, an Irish castle wedding is estimated at €150,000 and up. The destination wedding budget breakdown shows a full budget.

Can you rent a whole castle in Ireland for a wedding?

Yes, you can rent a whole castle in Ireland for a wedding. Exclusive-hire estates such as Ballyfin Demesne and Bellingham Castle, and Luttrellstown Castle on certain dates, give you the entire property, with no other guests or events. You pay a hire fee plus catering plus rooms, so it costs more than a castle hotel.

Castle hotels such as Cabra, Markree and Dromoland price per head, stay open to other guests, and work well for 80 to 150 guests. Ask every castle two things early: whether exclusive use is available on your date, and the minimum spend or guest count to secure it. Bellingham's seasonal minimums run from about 50 guests midweek to 140 or more on peak weekends.

Where is the best place in Ireland for a castle wedding?

The best place in Ireland for a castle wedding depends on your guests. The east, around Dublin, is the easiest for people flying in: Luttrellstown, Bellingham and Slane Castle are within an hour or so of Dublin Airport. The west has the Atlantic coast, and the midlands are home to Ballyfin and Cabra.

RegionCastlesGetting there
East: Dublin, Meath, Louth, KildareLuttrellstown, Bellingham, SlaneWithin an hour or so of Dublin Airport
West: Mayo, Galway, Clare, SligoAshford, Dromoland, MarkreeShannon or Knock airports; Dublin is a two to three hour drive
Midlands: Laois, Offaly, Westmeath, CavanBallyfin, CabraRoughly ninety minutes from Dublin
Southwest: Cork, KerryCastles and country houses by the coast; see venues in County KerryLonger transfers from Dublin; some European flights into Cork Airport

Choose the east for older guests, a large group, or people who can only take a long weekend. Shannon Airport is fifteen minutes from Dromoland and about ninety from Ashford. For Scotland, see the Scottish Highlands wedding guide.

Who wrote this

About this article

Written by Aisle. Sources and revision details are listed here. If you spot an error, email us.

First published
15 August 2026
Last revised
7 October 2026
Author
Aisle

Common questions

How much notice do you have to give to marry in Ireland?+

You must give at least three months' notice to marry in Ireland. Both partners notify a registrar at a Civil Registration Service, and the HSE counts the three months from the date of that appointment. Only a court exemption order can shorten it. Couples living abroad can ask to give notice by post, then meet the registrar at least five days before the ceremony.

What is the best month to get married in Ireland?+

May, June and September are the best months to get married in Ireland: temperatures sit around 15 to 20 degrees Celsius, the evenings are long and the countryside is at its greenest. July and August are busier and prices rise. October to April costs less, but daylight is short. Rain is possible in every month.

Can you elope at a castle in Ireland?+

You can elope at a castle in Ireland, but not at short notice. The three months' notice applies to every marriage, however small, and an elopement still needs a registered solemniser and two witnesses aged 18 or over. A civil registrar can marry you at an approved castle on a weekday. Ask each castle about minimum guest numbers first.

How far in advance should you book an Irish castle?+

Book an Irish castle as early as you can, and eighteen to twenty-four months ahead for a July or August date. In October 2026, Dromoland Castle's weddings page said its 2026 and 2027 wedding calendar was fully booked, with a waitlist open for 2028. Give guests eight to ten months' notice, twelve in peak season.

Can you have an outdoor ceremony at an Irish castle?+

An outdoor ceremony at an Irish castle depends on your solemniser and the castle. A civil registrar can marry you in a courtyard, garden or field that is open to the public and beside the approved building, on a weekday. Religious and secular solemnisers, such as Humanist celebrants, have more flexibility on location. Plan an indoor backup for rain.

How much does it cost to get married in Ireland?+

The legal paperwork to get married in Ireland costs €200, the non-refundable notification fee, plus €20 for each marriage certificate and an extra fee if a registrar marries you outside a registry office. The wedding itself costs far more: the weddingsonline 2026 survey of more than 1,000 couples put the average Irish wedding at €36,641 excluding the honeymoon, with an average of 141 guests. A castle wedding for 40 to 80 guests is estimated at €30,000 to €70,000 before guest rooms.

Sources

Sources and editorial notes

  1. 2026Department of Social Protection, gov.ieGet married in IrelandOpen →
  2. 2024Citizens Information (Ireland)Notification requirements for marriageOpen →
  3. 2024Citizens Information (Ireland)Civil marriage ceremoniesOpen →
  4. 2024Citizens Information (Ireland)Religious and secular marriage ceremoniesOpen →
  5. 2026Health Service Executive (HSE)How to get married in IrelandOpen →
  6. 2026U.S. Customs and Border ProtectionPreclearanceOpen →
  7. 2026weddingsonlineThe Real Cost of an Irish Wedding in 2026Open →
  8. 2026Dromoland CastleDromoland Castle WeddingsOpen →
  9. 2025U.S. Department of State, Bureau of Consular AffairsMarriageOpen →

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