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Destination wedding ideas, and how to choose a location.

Destination wedding ideas, sorted by what limits you: Maui, Napa Valley or Charleston if most guests live in the US; the Amalfi Coast, Lake Como or Santorini if the guest list is small; the Algarve or Puglia if the budget is tight. Also here: marriage license rules for six US places and three filters for choosing a location.

Walt Lafky · 11 min readPublished · Updated

At a glance

Destination wedding ideas start from what limits you: where guests live, how many are coming and what you can spend. If most guests live in the US, look at Maui, Napa Valley, Lake Tahoe, Sedona, Charleston or Savannah: guests who live there need no passport, and you marry on a state marriage license. A small guest list keeps the Amalfi Coast, Lake Como, Santorini, Mykonos and the Maldives in play. To choose, apply three filters in order: guest travel, budget tier, and the kind of weekend you want.

Start with
Where your guests live
In the US
Six places, no passport for US guests
Small guest list
Amalfi, Lake Como, Santorini stay in play
Lead time
12–18 months

Destination wedding ideas, sorted by what limits you

Destination wedding ideas hold up when they start from a limit: stay in the US if most guests live there, take a small group to the Amalfi Coast or Lake Como, or start in the value tier with the Algarve or Puglia. Find the row that describes you.

If this is youIdeaPlaces to look at
Most guests live in the USStay in the countryMaui, Napa Valley, Lake Tahoe, Sedona, Charleston, Savannah
About 30 guestsUse places that top out below 150 guestsAmalfi Coast, Lake Como, Santorini, Mykonos, the Maldives
150 guestsGo where venues take large groupsMallorca, Puglia, Tuscany, Cancún and the Riviera Maya, Bali
A tight budgetStart in the value tierAlgarve, Puglia, mainland Greece, Paros
Food and wine come firstMake the meals the reason to travelTuscany, Provence, Mallorca, Bali
A party, or a retreatChoose a place that leans your wayParty: Mykonos, Ibiza, Tulum. Retreat: Provence, Tuscany, Lake Como
No foreign paperworkMarry legally at home, then hold a symbolic ceremony awayAny of the above

For a place-by-place comparison with months, flights and paperwork, see the guide to the best destination wedding locations.

Destination weddings in the US: what staying in the country changes

Destination weddings in the US take two jobs off the list: guests who live in the country need no passport, and you marry on a state marriage license instead of working through a foreign registry.

Guests fly on a REAL ID driver’s license or state ID. The Transportation Security Administration has enforced REAL ID for domestic flights since May 7, 2025, and accepts a passport in its place.

The license comes from a state or county office, and the rules differ: Hawaii has no waiting period, while South Carolina holds the license for 24 hours after you apply. The marriage license table below covers six places.

For more places, browse North American wedding destinations or wedding venues in the United States by state.

Best destination wedding locations in the US, by setting

The best destination wedding locations in the US depend on the setting you want: Maui for beaches, Napa Valley for wine country, Lake Tahoe for a mountain lake, Sedona for red-rock desert, and Charleston or Savannah for a historic city.

PlaceSetting
Maui, HawaiiIsland beaches and volcanic scenery
Napa Valley, CaliforniaWine country, with winery, resort and inn venues
Lake Tahoe, California and NevadaA mountain lake, with forest and beach ceremony sites
Sedona, ArizonaHigh desert, with chapels and resorts among the red rocks
Charleston, South CarolinaHistoric mansions and waterside venues
Savannah, GeorgiaA city of park squares and restored 18th-century homes

These are the six US places with a full Aisle guide, so read the list as a starting point and not a ranking. Each guide covers venues, estimated costs and the marriage license.

Wedding destinations in the US: marriage license rules in six places

At wedding destinations in the US, you need a marriage license from the state where the ceremony takes place: Hawaii and Douglas County, Nevada, list no waiting period, while South Carolina holds the license for 24 hours after you apply.

PlaceWhere you applyWhat the office says
Maui, HawaiiHawaii Department of Health: online, then in person with a license agentNo waiting period; no state residence or US citizenship requirement. Meet the agent together no sooner than 30 days before the ceremony.
Napa Valley, CaliforniaA California county clerk’s office, both of you in personYou do not need to be a California resident. The license is valid for 90 days.
Lake TahoeA county clerk in the state where the ceremony is heldCalifornia: as above. Nevada: the Douglas County Clerk, with an office at Stateline, lists no waiting period and no blood test.
Sedona, ArizonaThe clerk of the superior court in any Arizona countyThe license expires one year after it is issued.
Charleston, South CarolinaCharleston County Probate Court, onlineNo residency requirement. A 24-hour wait after you file; the license is emailed within two business days.
Savannah, GeorgiaChatham County Probate Court, by appointmentIf neither of you lives in Georgia, the license must come from the county where the ceremony is held.

Rules and fees change, so read the office’s page before you book travel around it.

Abroad, the legal route can rule a place out. France marries you only in a commune where one of you, or a parent, has a home or at least one month of continuous residence. Mexican requirements vary by state and municipality: the Baja California Sur civil registry asks foreign couples for apostilled, translated birth certificates, prenuptial tests valid for 15 days and four witnesses. If that does not suit you, marry at home and hold a symbolic ceremony at the destination. See international wedding legal requirements, country by country.

Small destination wedding ideas, for 30 guests or so

A small destination wedding of about 30 guests can use places that a 150-guest wedding cannot: the Amalfi Coast, Lake Como, Santorini, Mykonos and the Maldives all top out below that size. A short list helps in three more ways.

  • You can ask everyone first. Check each guest’s flights, time off and budget before you choose.
  • The legal steps fit inside the trip. Hawaii has no waiting period once the license is issued, so you can meet the agent and marry on the same visit.
  • Some places are planned small. The Maldives estimate on this page is for 50 guests, not 70.

The budget tiers below are modelled for 70 guests, not 30. The destination wedding budget breakdown shows which lines are priced per guest, and resort packages are covered under all-inclusive destination wedding packages.

Unique destination wedding ideas: change the setting, the month or the day

For unique destination wedding ideas, change one of three things: the type of place, the month, or the day of the week.

  • A different type of place. A castle or historic estate, a vineyard or winery, or a mountain setting such as Aspen or the Swiss Alps in place of a beach.
  • The quieter neighbour. Provence, the Algarve and the Tuscan interior are more understated than the Amalfi Coast, Santorini or the Maldives. Puglia, Paros and mainland Greece sit in the value tier.
  • A shoulder-season or midweek date. The weeks between peak and off-peak often combine good weather with reasonable prices, and with under 10 months to plan a midweek date is often the way in.
  • A long trip for a short list. See long-haul destination wedding locations.

How to choose a destination wedding location: three filters, in order

To choose a destination wedding location, apply three filters in this order: where your guests live, what you can spend, and the kind of weekend you want. Guests come first because that is the one you cannot change.

  1. Guest geography. Where the larger part of your guest list flies from sets the region.
  2. Budget tier. Value, mid, premium or luxury, chosen before you fall for a venue.
  3. The kind of weekend. Party or retreat, formal or informal, food-led or scenery-led.

The filters should leave two or three places. A site visit, a call with a destination wedding planner or a close read of each destination’s guide decides between them. A place you loved on holiday is a fair starting point; run it through the same filters before you book.

Where should I get married? Start with where your guests live

Get married where the larger part of your guest list can arrive on a direct flight or with one connection. List your guests’ main departure cities, then compare routes, connections, travel time and cost from each, for the season of the wedding.

One connection is fine. Treat two as a warning sign. A long trip can also be hard for reasons other than price: time off, health or caring responsibilities. Ask close family and friends what is workable before you commit, and let guests decline without pressure.

The guest travel cost estimator builds a travel budget in US dollars from guest groups, flight costs and hotel rates that you can edit, and one collection gathers the wedding destinations with shorter flights. If you wanted a quiz, the wedding style quiz asks seven questions and suggests a style, a palette and venue types.

Destination wedding location ideas by budget tier

Destination wedding location ideas sort into four budget tiers, from the Algarve, Puglia, mainland Greece and Paros at the value end to the Maldives at the top. Every figure is a modelled planning estimate, not a quote. Where a destination’s guide has a cost table, the figure is its typical total for 70 guests over three days. Where it has none, the figure is a band labelled a summary estimate, with no line items behind it.

TierPlaces and estimates
ValueAlgarve about €57,000. Summary estimates: mainland Greece €30–60k, Puglia and Paros €35–70k
MidMallorca about €69,500, Tuscany about €78,000, Santorini about €82,000, Bali about $85,000 over four days. Ibiza, summary estimates: US$30–55k for 50–80 guests, or €60–120k for 80–120
PremiumProvence about €84,500, Amalfi Coast about €105,000, Lake Como about €119,500, Mykonos about €121,000, Cabo San Lucas about $173,500 with a resort buyout. Summary estimates: Hawaii $75–180k (Maui, 60–80 guests), Turks and Caicos $90–200k
LuxuryMaldives about $349,000 for 50 guests over four nights, guest villas included

The typical totals come from the destination guides, which price venue hire, catering, planner, photography, flowers and music line by line; the Algarve, Tuscany and Lake Como guides, among others, also give the cheapest and most expensive totals. Tulum is left out of the tiers: its guide’s estimate, about $151,000, includes a three-day hotel buyout, as the Cabo San Lucas figure includes a resort buyout.

Do not stretch a mid-tier budget over a premium-tier place. Going a tier below what you could afford frees money for food, flowers or a longer stay for guests. For ways to save, see the destination wedding budget tips.

The kind of weekend: party or retreat, beach, mountain or city

Once guests and budget have cut the list, choose by the weekend you want to host.

  • Party or retreat? Mykonos, Ibiza and Tulum lean party. Provence, Tuscany and Lake Como lean retreat.
  • Is the food part of the invitation? In Tuscany, Provence, Mallorca and Bali it is.
  • Showpiece or understated? The Amalfi Coast, Santorini and the Maldives read as “destination” on camera. Provence, the Algarve and the Tuscan interior are quieter.
  • Beach, mountain, villa or city? Tulum and Turks and Caicos suit barefoot ceremonies on sand, Tuscany and the Amalfi Coast have historic villas and cliffside terraces, and Aspen and the Swiss Alps give an alpine backdrop. Charleston and Savannah are the city options among the US guides. Match the wedding to the place: a ballroom wedding does not transplant to a beach.

Browse by type: beach destination wedding venues, mountain destination weddings, European destination weddings and Caribbean and Mexico wedding destinations.

Check the season too: the Caribbean hurricane season runs June through November, and in a Mediterranean summer you pay peak prices for heat and crowds.

What to check before you book a location

With two or three places left, check five things for each before you pay a deposit.

  • The venue has your date open in your target month, at your guest count.
  • The legal process is one you can live with, or you plan to marry at home.
  • Flights from your guests’ main cities are direct or need one connection in that season.
  • You have seen portfolios from the photographers, florists and planner the venue works with.
  • No political, weather or health risk would make the trip unwise for guests.

If the budget allows, visit your top one or two places 12 to 18 months before the wedding. Walk the ceremony and reception spaces at the hour your events will happen, and eat the caterer’s food. If you cannot visit, arrange video calls with a local planner and ask the venue for photos of recent events.

Should you book this one?

This guide fits

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  • ✓Travel is workable for the guests you hope can attend
  • ✓Budget sits cleanly within the destination's cost tier
  • ✓You can tolerate the legal paperwork (or will marry at home)
  • ✓The venue has your actual date available
  • ✓You have 12+ months of runway
  • ✓The aesthetic matches what you actually want

Look elsewhere

pause and look at the next option
  • –More than half your guest list faces a long-haul flight
  • –Your budget sits at the bottom of the destination's estimated range (leave room for the 15% contingency)
  • –The paperwork is a dealbreaker and you will not marry at home
  • –Your target date is already booked
  • –Under 10 months of runway for a signature venue
  • –The aesthetic looks right on Instagram but wrong once you list what you actually care about
Who wrote this

About this article

Written by Walt Lafky. Sources and revision details are listed here. If you spot an error, email us.

First published
1 March 2026
Last revised
7 October 2026
Author
Walt Lafky

Common questions

What are the best destination weddings in the US?+

It depends on the setting you want and where your guests live. Six places with full guides on Aisle are Maui for beaches, Napa Valley for wine country, Lake Tahoe for a mountain lake, Sedona for red-rock desert, and Charleston and Savannah for a historic city.

How do we plan an intimate destination wedding?+

Start with the guests. With a list of about 30 you can ask each person about flights, time off and budget before you choose. Then look at places that suit a short list: the Amalfi Coast, Lake Como, Santorini, Mykonos and the Maldives all top out below 150 guests. To skip foreign paperwork, marry legally at home and hold a symbolic ceremony away.

How far will guests travel for a destination wedding?+

It varies by guest, so ask. Compare travel time, connections and estimated trip costs from the places your guests live, and talk to close family and friends about their limits before you book. A short flight is not automatically affordable, and a long flight does not mean someone can or should attend.

Do guests need a passport for a destination wedding in the US?+

Guests who live in the US do not. For domestic flights the Transportation Security Administration requires a REAL ID driver’s license or state ID, a rule it has enforced since May 7, 2025, and it accepts a passport in place of a REAL ID. Guests arriving from another country still need to meet US entry requirements.

Can we have a destination wedding with 150 guests?+

Yes, but the choice of place narrows. Mallorca, Puglia, Tuscany, Cancún and the Riviera Maya, and Bali all have venues that handle 150 or more guests. The Amalfi Coast, Lake Como, Santorini, Mykonos and the Maldives top out lower. At 100 guests and above, a full resort buyout becomes the usual format.

What if our guests cannot afford to travel?+

Some will decline, and that comes with a destination wedding. You can lower the barrier: choose a place with cheap flights from your guests’ main cities, ask the hotel for a room block 15–20% below its published rates, book 14 months ahead so guests can catch early airfare, and say plainly in the invitation what the trip will cost them.

How far ahead should we choose a destination wedding location?+

Allow 12 to 18 months. Premium venues book 14 to 20 months out for peak-season Saturdays, and mid-tier venues 8 to 14 months. With under 10 months you have fewer suppliers to choose from and will probably need a midweek or shoulder-season date, which is often fine.

Sources

Sources and editorial notes

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  4. 2026California Department of Public HealthCalifornia Marriage License General InformationOpen →
  5. 2026Douglas County Clerk-Treasurer, NevadaMarriage License and Wedding InformationOpen →
  6. 2026Visit Lake TahoeWedding Licenses CA & NVOpen →
  7. 2026Arizona State LegislatureArizona Revised Statutes 25-121: Marriage license; application; affidavitOpen →
  8. 2026Charleston County Probate CourtMarriage License DivisionOpen →
  9. 2026Probate Court of Chatham County, GeorgiaMarriage LicensesOpen →
  10. 2026Transportation Security AdministrationREAL IDOpen →
  11. 2026Hawaii Tourism AuthorityMauiOpen →
  12. 2026Visit Napa ValleyWeddings in Napa ValleyOpen →
  13. 2026Visit Lake TahoeWeddings at Lake TahoeOpen →
  14. 2026Visit SedonaSedona Arizona WeddingOpen →
  15. 2026Explore Charleston12 Reasons Charleston Is the Ideal Destination Wedding GetawayOpen →
  16. 2026Visit SavannahVisit SavannahOpen →

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