Tool № 04·The reckoners·Revised 19 April 2026
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The reckoners — checklist

Wedding planning
checklist.

37 items, eight phases, from eighteen months out to the day of. Progress lives in your browser; exports unbranded to PDF or email. The quiet list for the drawer, the clipboard, or the fridge.

Based on
412 real weddings
Destinations
24 covered
Time to result
Live, as you tick
Accuracy
±12% typical
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Forty-four items across eight phases, from eighteen months out to the day of. Tick as you go; your progress persists in your browser.

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Phase I

Eighteen to twelve months out.

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Set overall budget with a 15% contingency.
◼ Atelier noteCouples who budget without contingency go 5–10% over and feel stressed. The ones who budget with it come in at 100% and feel relaxed.
Shortlist three destinations; pick one.
◼ Atelier noteUse the three-filter framework: guest geography, budget tier, weekend format.
Book venue and planner (in the same week).
Lock the date.
◼ Atelier notePeak Saturday dates at premium venues are gone 18–24 months out.
Draft the first-pass guest list (oversize by 15%).
Phase II

Inside twelve months.

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Send save-the-dates.
◼ Atelier noteFourteen months is right for destination weddings. Earlier is fine.
Book photography, florals, and music together.
◼ Atelier noteThese three vendors book out 12–15 months ahead for peak dates.
Open the hotel room block, two price tiers.
Start legal paperwork — or commit to a symbolic ceremony.
◼ Atelier noteMost international couples marry legally at home and hold a symbolic ceremony abroad. It removes 6–12 weeks of foreign paperwork.
Launch the wedding website.
Phase III

Nine to six months out.

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Send formal invitations (8 months ahead).
◼ Atelier noteFront-load the travel information. Assume each guest reads the invitation once and returns to the website for detail.
Finalise the catering menu and wine list.
Finalise floral design and styling.
Book the welcome-event venue and menu.
Plan wedding-weekend activities.
Phase IV

Six to three months.

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Book ground transportation (shuttles, transfers, vans).
Order wedding-day attire with alteration lead time.
Book the rehearsal-dinner venue.
Decide on welcome bags (keep them modest).
◼ Atelier noteWelcome bags are the most-regretted wedding spend. A handwritten card and a local snack is enough.
Finalise music set lists and ceremony audio plan.
Phase V

Three months · finalising.

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RSVPs close. Chase late responses once, then treat silence as a no.
Final head count to caterer and venue.
◼ Atelier noteMost caterers need 60 days of runway on the final count — not 30.
Run the menu tasting in person.
Finalise the seating chart.
Legal paperwork complete and filed.
Phase VI

Two months · last details.

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Pay final vendor balances.
Print menus, place cards, ceremony programmes.
Confirm wedding-party travel and accommodations.
Final dress and suit fitting.
Phase VII

One month · final week prep.

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Final vendor walkthrough with planner.
Write vows.
Pull local cash for vendor tips.
◼ Atelier noteVendor tips at destination weddings run 10–15% of the fee. Your planner has the distribution plan.
Pack — wedding-day outfit in carry-on.
◼ Atelier noteEvery couple who checked the wedding outfit regretted it. Always carry-on.
Phase VIII

Week of · arrival and the day.

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Arrive at destination 3–4 days ahead.
Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner, two nights out.
Hand day-of coordination to the planner.
Enjoy. You have done the work.
Atelier note · what most couples miss

Every checklist item that involves a vendor has a hidden deadline: their payment schedule. Most caterers want their final balance 60 days before the event, not 30. Most photographers require the shot list 14 days before, not 3. Your timeline pressure is not the wedding day — it is 60 days before it.

What’s behind these figures

412 real weddings. Refreshed quarterly.

Every number in these tools is derived from the atelier’s own survey of vendors and venues, not pulled from the open web. We revise baselines every quarter and re-survey the top three destinations annually.

Data source
Atelier vendor survey
Last refresh
April 2026, Q2
Next refresh
July 2026
Accuracy
±12% typical
Sample size
412 weddings since 2024